弘一法师说过，识不足则多虑，信不足则多言，威不足则多怒。与人交往，说得多往往是表现欲占了上风，过往的成绩说的多是为了弥补自身实力的不足。多倾听，反而收获更多。- Master Hongyi once said that lack of knowledge leads to much worry, lack of faith leads to much talk, and lack of strength leads to much anger. Interacting with people, saying more is often to show the upper hand, and the past achievements are said to make up for their own lack of strength. The more you listen, the more you gain.